I haven't been doing much writing on this site, but this is the best place to point people who find me through Ignite DC. So, if my talk is why you're here, I want to make it easy for you to read the more relevant posts.
To read my thoughts and experiences with loss, go here.
To read just about Eva, loss included, go here.
More recently, I found myself commenting on another blog and writing things that I hadn't really said publicly before. The act of doing that and the response I got is partly what led me to submit a proposal for Ignite DC in the first place. So, if you'd like to see all of that too, it is here and here. James is an amazing writer and inspires me to express this stuff in a much more open way than I ever considered doing. I wish I could link directly to the comment thread to make it easy, but I haven't figured that out yet.
There is a bit of overlap in these terms, so I apologize in advance. If you like this stuff or have anything you want to share, feel free to drop it in comments or to find me on twitter - @sandman_va